Why “Wait and See” Isn’t Always the Best Approach: The Case for Early Speech Intervention
Blog post description.When it comes to a child's development, parents often find themselves weighing decisions with lasting impact. One such decision is whether to take action at the first sign of speech and language delays or to adopt a “wait and see” approach. It’s natural to hope that some issues might resolve on their own, especially when developmental milestones can vary from child to child. However, in the case of speech and language delays, early intervention often proves to be the most effective choice. Here’s why acting sooner rather than later can make a world of difference for your child.
Dana Zemke, CCC - Speech-Language Pathologist
11/12/20243 min read


Understanding the "Wait and See" Approach
The “wait and see” approach involves giving a child extra time to catch up on developmental milestones. Some professionals or well-meaning friends and family members may encourage waiting, suggesting that “all children develop at their own pace” or that “late talking runs in the family.” While it's true that children develop uniquely, research has shown that waiting it out with speech and language concerns can lead to challenges later on, especially when the issue doesn’t resolve on its own.
Why Early Intervention Matters
Brain Plasticity in Early Childhood During early childhood, a child’s brain is incredibly adaptable. This period of rapid development allows them to acquire skills more efficiently than at any other time. When we introduce speech therapy early, we harness this flexibility, giving children a stronger foundation for language, social interaction, and learning. Waiting may mean missing out on this critical period, potentially making it harder for children to catch up later.
Preventing Compounded Challenges Speech and language delays can affect more than just a child’s ability to talk. They can lead to frustration, behavioral issues, and struggles with social interaction. For school-age children, these delays often lead to difficulties with reading, writing, and overall academic success. Addressing speech and language delays early can prevent these additional complications, setting your child up for greater success in school and social environments.
Building Confidence and Social Skills Communication is a cornerstone of social development. When children struggle to express themselves, they can feel isolated or misunderstood, which can impact their confidence and willingness to engage with others. Early intervention supports language development and helps children build the social skills they need to thrive in group settings.
Gaining Valuable Tools and Techniques Early intervention gives parents and caregivers tools to support their child’s language development at home. From simple exercises to effective strategies, early intervention programs equip families with techniques to practice and reinforce their child’s progress in everyday interactions, promoting language growth outside of therapy sessions.
Myths That Lead to "Waiting"
Parents often receive mixed messages about speech development, leading to some common misconceptions. Here are a few:
"Boys Talk Later Than Girls"
While boys may develop language skills a bit later on average, this difference is typically small and doesn’t explain significant delays. Any child, regardless of gender, who is significantly behind in language milestones may benefit from early assessment."Late Talking Runs in the Family"
Although some children might naturally start talking later than others, genetic factors alone don’t account for all delays. Many speech and language delays are treatable and not necessarily inherited. Waiting based on family history alone might mean overlooking a treatable delay."They’ll Grow Out of It"
Some delays do resolve on their own, but it’s challenging to know whether a child will naturally catch up or if intervention is needed. In cases where speech and language development is noticeably behind, a speech-language pathologist (SLP) can help determine the best course of action.
How to Identify the Need for Early Intervention
It’s not always easy to know when to reach out, especially when children are very young. Here are some general guidelines for when to seek help:
By 12 months: No babbling, lack of gestures (waving, pointing), or limited responses to name.
By 18 months: Limited vocabulary (fewer than 10 words), lack of simple two-word phrases.
By 2 years: Difficulty following simple directions, limited use of words, or trouble combining words.
Beyond: Any persistent challenges in communicating needs, frequent frustration, or difficulty socializing.
If your child is showing signs of delay or you’re concerned about their progress, consulting with an SLP for an evaluation can provide valuable insights. An early assessment doesn’t necessarily mean a diagnosis but offers peace of mind and a clearer understanding of your child’s needs.
The Benefits of Taking Action
At Nova Speech Pathology Restoration, we believe in empowering families through early intervention. Our team is here to support your child’s communication skills, offering individualized plans to suit each child’s unique needs. Remember, acting early can be the key to unlocking your child’s full potential.
If you’d like to discuss your child’s development or schedule a consultation, reach out to us today! Call us at 561-983-1230 or email info@novaspeechpathologyrestoration.com.